Summary

Music says a lot about us.

If you haven't noticed, you are more likely to get along with people who like music the same amount as you.

In 3 minutes, the Music Personality Quiz measure your interest in music & sends you a ranked list of your matches. Watch for your 3 & 4 note matches - you are likely to get along best with them (look for the green notes).

Exchange music emails to break the ice. It's free.

Why music?
The ASM process
And, who am I?
The research
Now what?


Discover and play music from a catalog of
4 million songs   400,000+ albums   250,000+ artists
(courtesy of Rhapsody)



Not single? Fine with us. If it’s not so fine with your significant other, you won’t show up in search results until you enter your birthday. Just indicate you want “music recommendations & friendship” in your profile.


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Why music?

Music is everywhere. We all share the common experience of music.

But we don't all like the same music or respond to music in the same way.

Whether your MP3 player is attached to your hip or you rarely listen to the car radio, we each make a choice about music.


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The ASM process

If you like U2, do you relate to everyone who likes U2? Doubtful.

This service isn't about matching people who both like the same band.

A Sound Match is about matching people who have a similar appreciation for music.

See our compatibility indicator.

Of course the music we like is important. Listen to the music of your matches while browsing their profiles. You will learn what you want to know about their tastes.

You could get a 4-note match (high likelihood) with someone who likes different music than you. Don't fret. Because you two like music a similar amount, you can relate in many ways. Your 3-4 note matches are on your wavelength. They respond to life in a similar way and choose their music like you do.

Even if the romance sparks aren't flying, give this person a chance to turn you on to new music.



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And, who am I?

I am in love with music. I listen often and my tastes are wide-ranging.

For most of my career, I worked in the music business. Those years gave me the chance to observe the variety of music personalities that exist.

For better or worse, I have lots of dating experience. A Sound Match was created by someone in the same shoes as you. I have spent countless hours in "the field" testing out my theory.

Eventually, I stopped having bad dates in favor of consistently fun nights out. Even if I felt no romantic spark, I felt my time was well spent with a like-minded friend. When there was a spark, it was big.

At the very least, music is bad-date repellent.   At most, it might help you find a healthy, loving relationship with someone who brings out your best.



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The research

Many years ago I began collecting music test results from couples I knew. Over and over again I saw a correlation between the couples' test scores and the strength of their relationships.

Couples who scored closer together got along the best. Over 85% of the time, couples in healthy, long-term relationships scored within a 10% range of one another. I already knew this from my own relationships. But, when I finally graphed out on paper the results of friends and family's relationships, I was thrilled to see my theory supported by the data. Knowing I was on to something great encouraged me to keep going.

Many years went into R&D, also testing and refining the tools that can identify and match Music Personalities. Along this road, the theory proved itself time and time again.



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Now what?

Take the quiz. Give yourself a head start in finding someone who "gets" you.

Check out profiles and listen to the music of your matches. I hope you like how it resonates.

At a minimum, enjoy discovering new music.


Lynne
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