Category Archives: Dating Advice: How to say it

“What? You’re over 40 and want to breed?!?”

(What NOT to say after meeting at a speed-dating event)
I finally got myself to a speed dating event last week and had a blast. I met thirteen men and had four minutes to decide if I would mark them as a “yes” on my scorecard.
Let’s be clear. Four minutes is only [...]

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We had plans. Why didn’t he call?

I recently received an urgent call from a friend. She wanted to reserve a time I’d be available so that we could over-analyze the behavior of a new guy she’s dating.
He’s an instructor at her gym. For months, I’ve been hearing about her crush on him. She’s been “working it” with a casual flirtation here, [...]

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“How to say it”

This category is devoted to helping singles talk to each other. Sounds simple, maybe even demeaning? Yet, I frequently hear about the trouble people have when it comes to saying what they want to say.
I feel compelled to write this “column” for a few reasons.
As a woman with 20+ years of [...]

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